Change your attitude. If you cannot change things, change your attitude about things instead. The damage a person suffered because of what happened is less bad than his view of things. Thing in itself is not important, people's views is more important.
Enjoy the process, great every day. Life is a process, not a result, if you do not enjoy the process, results to what we all know. Life is a parenthesis, left bracket is born, the right bracket is dying, we need to do is fill in parentheses, to fight with a wonderful life, to fill the brackets with good feelings.
Live in the moment. The true meaning of live in the moment is from the Zen. Someone asked a Zen master, what is living in the moment? Master replied, eat is eat, sleep is sleep; this is called living in the moment. Live in the moment, the moment is to make everyone happy. Live in the moment, we must learn to find every piece of good things happen to you, to believe life is start in the best way. If you do not live in the moment, the moment will be lost.
Emotional independence refers to not to depend your own source of happiness on other people's behavior. We can take only our own. Some people are always worrying about the future. Do not fuss; if you are worried about the things you cannot control, please let it goes. We can only consider matters within its power, whatever you do; force cannot and are charged with this matter.
"Paradise "and "hell" is made by the human heart. There's an interesting story: God led a man to hell, he finds people in hell are all skinny. They use special spoon for porridge, when they eat out the porridge, everyone blaming each other and hate each other. God take this man to the paradise again, he found people are all look chubby and smiling. They use the same spoon to eat the same porridge, but they scoop out the porridge to feed each other, and they all eat the porridge. This shows that to learn to treat people around. If you regard someone else as the devil, you are living in "hell"; if you regard someone as an angel, you're living in "paradise"
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